Hallelujah…It's raining men!
We have been accused in the past of gender bias, for our 'blatant' coverage of women's issues, ignoring the demands of men.
This week, we are determined to shatter that so-called gender bias! Feel a flavour of the teenage 'bro-code', but let LS show that the 'bro code' is a bonding for a lifetime. I personally feel that this intimate connection between friends is very important. Just like most girls can share her intimate matters to her best female friend; men too, often need and create that space, without talking much about it!
This neutral space is where you can be yourself without prejudices, where you can relax and put up your feet on the table or forget the toilet seat, watch sports or talk rubbish; this space acts like a breather. You cannot expect a person to be on guard all the time. The girlfriends or wives in their lives cannot expected to mummy them and keep a tab on them at all times; he is your partner not your child. I personally feel if you dictate terms to him then you should be prepared to be dictated as well. Plain and simple. He needs his boys just like you need your girls.
In fact, 'his space, her space and our space' is what a healthy relationship is all about. And having and respecting this need for space is of utmost importance if you and your man want to live happily ever after.
Happy reading and do not forget to try the recipes.
-- RBR
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