Did you grow up in a dysfunctional family?
We look back at all the things we have left undone and they start to take a toll on us, either by affecting our productivity or demotivating us.
The "not all men” argument can be futile for a lot of reasons, the most important being a disruption in the discourse.
Even if we are well-adjusted with our rooms, a few changes here and there can help to break the monotony.
The concept of being “cultured” has no objective truth to it, and is completely subjective.