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My friend's boyfriend is also a good friend of mine. Some days back he told me that he loves another girl. This got me really angry and I told him that I'd tell this to his girlfriend. He then told me not to worry and that he wouldn't talk to the other girl. Should I relay my conversation with him to my friend?
Not Sure What to Do
Dear No Sure,
It depends how he told you that he has another girl friend. He might just be joking or said it in a light hearted way. You should not rush into saying anything to your friend as yet and give him a second chance. Soon his behaviour will reveal and you will not have to tell anything.
My boyfriend says that he loves me and pays me a lot of attention when I am alone with him but when we are with his friends, he completely ignores me. When I complain, his friends usually take his side, while he does nothing to defend our relationship. I heard one of his friends saying that she doesn't think that we will work out. He is an amazing person when he is not with his friends but I have a feeling that he may be embarrassed of me and I have absolutely no idea why. Please help.
For starters, stop feeling insecure. You should have a talk with your boyfriend and not with other friends. Ask him to explain his behaviour and give concrete examples of when you have felt ignored. If he is such an amazing person when he is alone with you then there is no reason why he should not be the same in public I believe a frank talk with him will resolve your concerns. Don't even mention that he is embarrassed of you, this should not even figure in your conversation.